Put Your Hands In The Air If You's A True Player?

The Diary Of A Single Gay Man: Put Your Hands In The Air If You's A True Player? (Blog #5)


Valentine's Day...Done!....My 35th Birthday....Finished!.....February milestones of my life have come and gone, leaving in their wake....a sad miserable depressed gay man....it happens sure it does....however, as I turned the young age of 35 (yes mid 30's are the new 18...I'm trending that now!), my tolerance for bullshit has gotten to be less then desirable.  Case in point:  A "friend" of many years decided to take it upon himself in yet another drunken stupor (every night another stupor...alcoholism is so sad)...to post something about me on Facebook.  Not only was it a post about me, but he also TAGGED my name in the post so that everyone else could comment and add their non relegated two cents.  As could be imagined, I was hurt, shocked and to put it nicely....FUCKING PISSED!!!!....Who did he think he was ranting and raving about me because he was "tired of hearing the complaining...because after all is said and done....he got lap band surgery and lost some weight and STILL no one wants him"....Needless to say I gave him a tongue lashing, deleted him off Facebook and haven't looked back.  HE decided to become one of "them"...The Haters....so off he is in an eternal drunk haze...never to know what sobriety is and to be the laughing stock of gay night life....but as the liquor keeps flowing he'll never know that now will he....sorry we veered off track...back to the low tolerance of bullshit....

A friend of mine commented me today and asked if we could address the subject of guys who think they players and think it is cool to play THE ROLE of a player....and to her, I will oblige!   Ladies and gentlemen...step right up and meet the saddest breed of human being: The Wannabe Player.  We have all had some sort of contact with them....we like to think we can change them...however the sad truth is these low lives know nothing about relationships....what they do know is limited to the thought that they are a legend in their own time....nice fantasy land they are living in...let me know when the shuttle lands!   Time for a great example:  Someone who i chat with from time to time likes to think that he can fool me into thinking that "he's only thinking of me and that he wishes I was with him"....to this I say:  PUH-LEASE!!!!  Do you honestly think that I don't know you are flirting with dozens of other guys due to the pics and posts on your Facebook wall???  Wannabe players are STUPID....that is what they have in common!  They never cover their tracks and yet they smooth talk girls and guys into thinking they are the most special people on the planet.  Some who are naive will fall for this lame ass stunting....however, us seasoned veterans can usually spot BULLSHIT WACKNESS a mile away.   Ladies and gents...if you are currently involved or have recently experienced this breed of low life....don't be upset with yourselves!   Rejoice in the knowledge that now you know....and you too can spread the gospel of WANNABE PLAYERS to others who may not have been hit by the weak storm which is their tired ass game.

I may be bruised and a bit worse for wear at the moment, however...I will still have a positive point to preach so that my girls and guys out there don't fall victim to the stupidity of others....until everyone is informed, these fingers will keep on walking and in the midst of their wake you will find the strewn bodies of assholes past and present....rejoice my readers...a new day has come :)

xoxo - Ron aka The Single Gay Man